My partner tells myself and others that I keep spoiling the cat

My partner tells myself and others that I keep spoiling the pet too much.

However, I am not a person who thinks that you can easily spoil a pet or a baby.

I recognize that critters plus babies are magical creatures who cannot be spoiled. However, my partner does not recognize that way at all. He is typically bugging myself and others about the fact that I take too much time with our cat. All of us are empty nesters now, though, plus so now I do not have a child to take care of or spoil. My pet has taken the place of my last child who went to college in the fall. It has easily been one large adjustment for me, that is for sure. I am not particularly doing anything wrong when it comes to my pet if you ask me. My partner says that the way that I act about this pet is just ridiculous. He is mad because I called the local Heating plus A/C supplier to have them come plus provide myself and others an quote on a new ductless mini split heating plus cooling system for the cat. I am just worried that the pet will get too tepid or too cold out on the daylight porch where she enjoys to go plus kneel sometimes. He told myself and others that I was gonna blow all of our currency on this . He thinks that she does not need her genuinely own Heating plus A/C system, although I beg to differ. I do not want her to be too tepid or too cold out there on the daylight porch. He said if I am worried about it then I should just make her come inside.

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