Does anybody here know someone in their personal life that always yells? I do and I have never liked it when people always feel the need to yell to get their point across.
It just seems like a perfect way to shut down any kind of discussion or disagreement.
Unfortunately, I know all too multiple people that do this deliberately for this reason. Some people just cannot handle being wrong and so because they cannot handle being wrong they feel that if they yell they can shut down any opposition to their fights, no matter how illogical their fights may be. I know a couple people that just basically want to have other people obey everything without they say without questioning. Needless to say this is not something that is healthy and not something that I want in my life. I used to have this exact situation with my bestie. My bestie and I always disagreed on heating and AC systems, and it’s what the temperature of our house should be. I did not know what then however it would ultimately end up being the thing that split us up. Every time I would go to explain my side of why I wanted the boiler or cooling system to be a certain temperature he just would not have it. If I tried to explain myself or reason with him he would just yell at me. It was a unquestionably eye-opening experience, and it only further proved what I already knew. Which is that yelling at someone over something like that just does not work. Because all it does is push people away.