Does anybody here know someone in their personal life that always yells? I do and I’ve never liked it when people always feel the need to yell to get their point across.
It just seems like a perfect way to shut down any kind of discussion or disagreement.
Unfortunately, I know all too many people that do this deliberately for this reason. Some people just cannot handle being wrong and so because they cannot handle being wrong they feel that if they yell they can shut down any opposition to their arguments, no matter how illogical their arguments may be. I know a couple people that just basically want to have other people obey everything without they say without questioning. Needless to say this is not something that is healthy and not something that I want in my life. I used to have this exact situation with my boyfriend. My boyfriend and I always disagreed on heating and AC systems, and it’s what the temperature of our apartment should be. I didn’t know what then but it would ultimately end up being the thing that split us up. Every time I would go to explain my side of why I wanted the heater or air conditioner to be a certain temperature he just wouldn’t have it. If I tried to explain myself or reason with him he would just yell at me. It was a very eye-opening experience, and it only further proved what I already knew. Which is that yelling at someone over something like that just doesn’t work. Because all it does is push people away.