If I tried to explain myself or reason with him she would just yell at me
Does anybody here know someone in their personal life that always yells? I do and I’ve never liked it when people always feel the need to yell to get their point across. It just seems like a perfect way to shut down any kind of discussion or disagreement. Unluckyly, I know all too many people that do this deliberately for this reason. Some people just cannot handle being wrong and so because they cannot handle being wrong they feel that if they yell they can shut down any opposition to their fights, no matter how illogical their fights may be. I know a couple people that just basically want to have other people obey everything separate from they say separate from questioning. Needless to say this is not something that is healthy and not something that I want in my life. I used to have this exact situation with my wifey. My wifey and I always disagreed on heating and A/C systems, and it’s what the temperature of our dwelling should be. I did not know what then however it would ultimately end up being the thing that split us up. Every time I would go to explain my side of why I wanted the boiler or air conditioner to be a certain temperature she just would not have it. If I tried to explain myself or reason with him she would just yell at me. It was a very eye-opening experience, and it only further proved what I already knew. Which is that yelling at someone over something like that just does not work. Because all it does is push people away.