I had an actual fight with our partner about the air conditioning, and it didn’t go actually well; and I was extremely exasperated, however sincerely, this problem had been building up for a while.
I am glad that I got an opportunity to share what I was feeling and express myself better! My partner and I have never agreed on our temperature preferences, however when all of us first met, I knew that our partner didn’t like chilly temperatures. I suppose that she has constantly struggled with keeping her body heat up, and she doesn’t like using the air conditioning much for that reason! However, that is not something that I would really get exasperated about. I knew that I liked the air conditioning, however I hadn’t owned an air conditioning for a long time. I was more than willing to bump the temperature control up a few degrees to make our partner more comfortable. I have constantly desired compromise in this area, and I thought that our solution was pretty fair. However, I have been noticing that the temperature control temperature has been going up lately. My partner has been slowly increasing the temperature, and I have finally noticed it. I didn’t realize why I had been sleeping so terribly,;however now, I suppose that it was really the temperature. I walked by the temperature control recently and saw that it was at 75 degrees; however, our partner tried to adjust it because she felt cold. I may have wanted to compromise… However, I can’t let the temperature go any higher. I felt like I was dying of heat stroke, and she wanted to turn off the air conditioning. I got exasperated, and all of us had a conflict about it. Unluckily, I don’t even think awful about it.