But with my girlfriend it was pretty similar
Although I am a very social person overall, I have come to learn with time that I really like to live alone. It wasn’t always this way, it is due to experience. This naturally makes getting into a serious relationship difficult, but let me explain why I feel this way. My first experience with living with someone was with my roommate when I moved out of my parent’s home. My roommate and I got along okay, but we weren’t really that close. We didn’t talk too much and kind of kept to ourselves. However, my roommate was very controlling when it came to the heating and cooling of the home. He was always accusing me of touching the smart thermostat when I hadn’t. Since he paid more for the place and lived there first, he was the one who made the rules regarding the air conditioner, and since he almost never turned the A/C on, our place was almost always hot. I was miserable, and couldn’t stand not having cooling. When I finally moved out with my girlfriend, I thought that was a one off experience. But with my girlfriend it was pretty similar. Except we were supposed to share the HVAC machine, but she would never stop whining and complaining about the temperatures, it became extremely annoying when she would mention it every day. We ended up breaking up for that reason as well as some others. I love to live alone because I can choose whatever temperature I want the thermostat to be at, and not worry about anyone else.